(Q) Please advise me as to how I may help to adjust the
domestic problem existing between my daughter, [
263], and
her husband. [See
303-4, Par. 9-A--13-A on
1/04/34.]
(A) This, of course, to the body - and to the conditions
that surround it - becomes really those experiences that
WORRY. But they should not be as problems. That individuals
have made and do make mistakes or errors in their association
and their activities is evidenced in the experience of each
and every soul. That the self may take upon self the
obligations of others does at times make for a hindering of
those individuals meeting their own problems. We may assist
individuals to help themselves, but to stand in the position
at all times INSTEAD - does not always make for the greater
development for those individuals!
In meeting these, as we find, the better would be to have the
more perfect understanding between the two, that have their
own obligations to one another, to those conditions about
them, and then abide by that which may be the activity. For
that with the prayers of self and those in close accord with
self will be those things that are NECESSARY for the indeed
development of those that are as the principals in the
circumstances and conditions, see? Get them together, then,
after prayer of self. Let them KNOW they are their problems,
not THINE alone but THEIR problems. Let the RESULTS of same
be, then, in the hands of the divine forces that are capable
of manifesting in the experiences of each.
(Q) If necessary should I resort to legal proceedings to
force him to support the child? [[
415]?]
(A) This should only come after the more direct appeal to
the good that is in the experience of every one. That there
is good IS evidenced, though at times it may appear to be
very far away. Yet it IS there; if appealed to in that
manner in which it is the right of every one through not only
the duties but the OPPORTUNITIES, the privileges! Then if he
fails, proceed.
(Q) Advise me as to whether I should encourage my children,
[
263] and [
361], to communicate further with their father in
Atlanta, Ga.?
(A) They each have received that within themselves that
makes for the responsibilities upon their own individual
activities. And these should be turned to them as their own
problems. There may be advice and counsel, yes - but how?
"As ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to
them." This is not merely a trite saying! It is a LIVING
truth, that is known and read of all. Put thine self in the
position of the other. How would thou advise? Then advise
in THAT same manner; yet knowing and indicating to each that
the activity is THEIR OWN responsibility. [See
303-1, Par.
11-A--15-A in re husband disappearing years ago.]
(Q) Should I encourage my sister, [Miss [
307]], to accept
work with the Federal Education?
(A) We would! [See
307-1 Reports.]
(Q) If so, when might she expect to go to work?
(A) By the first!
(Q) First of what?
(A) Month!
(Q) Present month or December?
(A) It couldn't be the first of the present month, because
it's passed!
(Q) Whom shall I contact that will be able to give my son
[
361] work on Saturday after school? [See his Life Rdg.
361-4 on
8/10/34.]
(A) This would depend upon the character of work that is
sought by the body. If in the direction of that which the
body desires for its future activities, then choose in those
connections that will bring into the experience of the body
those things in that line of activity as would be in
connection with the electrical activity forces. If just for
the needs of the day, we would say rather with the D. P.
organizations. [D. Pender Groceries, later became Colonial
Stores.] If for those that would make for the better
advancement in those activities in the social service, then
in those things that appertain to those activities in the
City organization of same would be the better channels.
(Q) Give me any spiritual advice that will help me to bring
harmony in my work.
(A) Let the rest in self, in body, in mind, in material, in
social activities, be as one with the Lord in purpose, in
aim, in desire. For these make for that peace, that harmony,
that comes from knowing that each day, each hour is lived to
the best of the knowledge and understanding of that thou
wouldst present to thy fellows as the way of truth. This is
not hard; only hard when one attempts to direct others or to
say this or that must or must not be done. But rather what
does thy heart and thy mind direct as being that you would
have done to YOU in the same experience? Be gentle, be kind,
be long-suffering, be patient; and ye will have these
attributes shown thee by others.
(Q) Any advice to me regarding the home as a whole?
(A) With the changes as we find necessary for the meeting
of the conditions and the surroundings to carry on, it
becomes necessary that each be a contributing factor to the
caring for the needs in the material sense, but not to the
detriment or to the laying aside of any of the spiritual
forces or principles.
(Q) Any spiritual advice that will help me personally at
this time?
(A) Study to show thyself approved in that manner that thine
own conscience does not smite thee.
(Q) Is there a possibility that we may learn to use the law
that Jesus used in controlling those things material and
spiritual to meet present needs?
(A) This can be in the experience of all.
We are through with this reading.
Copy to Self
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BACKGROUND
See
303-4 on
1/04/34 in re family & financial affairs.
11/02/34 She sought help for meeting financial obligations
as head of household supporting her sister and young son,
besides married daughter and grandson living with them.
REPORTS
1/06/35 See
262-75, Par. 18-A personal message on lesson
Destiny.
1/17/35 Verbal report to GD: "My daughter [
263] and her
husband are living together as happily as they ever have,
and everything is just fine in that respect. I feel so
grateful to the reading for the information which enabled
me to adjust that situation."
3/06/35 Her daughter obtained Life Rdg.
263-4 advising how
she could help her family financially, etc.
5/26/35 See
262-82, Par. 10-A personal message on Destiny.
6/13/35 She obtained Mental-Spiritual
303-10 seeking advice
in re her financial and domestic affairs.
Subsequently she obtained several Ck. Physical Rdgs.
8/11/35 See
262-86, Par. 33-A personal message on Destiny of
the Body.



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