GC: You will have before you the body and enquiring mind of
[
319], at the state Department of Education, Ala., who seeks
information, advice and guidance as to her relationships with
her sister, Mrs. [
410], ..., Ala. You will advise her as to
her attitude, activity, and necessary procedure in order to
help her sister. You will answer the questions that may be
asked:
EC: Yes, we have the enquiring mind, [
319].
Now as we find, respecting the associations and relations
with the sister, [
410]:
The body mentally, at least in a manner, comprehends those
disturbing conditions in the mental forces of the sister.
While these may become trying, they ARE problems to be met.
And if conditions become such as to make it mentally
unbearable, then change; yet there is needed the
companionship, the advice and counsel in a SPIRITUAL way
and manner.
Then, as we find, in the light of all the principles that
are set by the ideal "Do as ye would be done by." This
should be the attitude. While it may appear to be a
hardship, if it is considered from the spiritual angle a
great deal may be accomplished.
Pray a great deal over the situation; and do not become
sorry for self. Do not condemn anyone.
We would not advise a change in the present. If it becomes
unbearable, this must be the choice of self.
Ready for questions.
(Q) Is her condition serious?
(A) If those suggestions are carried out as we have
indicated, this must eventually pass.
As has been indicated, it is a period of mental disturbance
as well as physical, and needs that care as has been
outlined.
(Q) How should I act when she is in one of her tantrums?
(A) As indicated, how would you desire she act toward you
if the conditions were reversed?
(Q) What specifically can I do to help her?
(A) As just indicated, reason with her; not in an
argumentive manner. Do not find fault. Do not condemn.
And do not feel sorry for self!
We are through for the present.
Copy to Self
Copy to Ass'n file
BACKGROUND
See sister's reading
410-3 on
3/22/40 and subsequent
correspondence by Miss [
319].
REPORTS
6/17/49 Miss [
319] ordered A.R.E. publications, giving the
same home address, so it could be assumed that she was still
living with her sister, Mrs. [
410].
10/26/56 She ordered publications, giving another address
which also was used by her sister, Mrs. [
410] in recent
correspondence. Apparently they were still living together.