10/01/40 Sister's [
319] ltr. to EC: "I am dreadfully worried
about my sister, Mrs. [
410]. I wrote you about her sometime
ago, but you seemed to think she would be better and for a
time she did seem better.
"I can't go into symptoms and details and I don't suppose it
is necessary. After going the rounds of the family she is
now concentrating on me and it is just about to get me down,
as well as herself. She wouldn't be that way if she were
normal.
"Please give me a reading on her at your earliest opportunity
- tell me what to do about the situation, how I should act
when she is in one of her tantrums, and if you think she
would be better if I moved out of her home. I want to do
absolutely what is right for her. She seems to think I don't
love her, but that's absurd.
"I may not be able to get her to carry out your instructions,
but I'll try. Do you think her condition is serious? And if
you see where I am in any way to blame, please tell me about
it.
"I would appreciate it if you would go very carefully into
this case and advise me promptly, because I am most unhappy
and worried...
"P.S. By all means don't let your reply go to the house. I
intended to write and tell you after your stop in ... that I
appreciated your calling her and asking her to come by and
see you. I have been upset and worried so much these recent
months that I hardly know what I do. She enjoyed seeing you
and talking to you and I think it gave her a real boost."
10/03/40 EC's wire: "Advise her address, appointment Sat.
A.M. 10:30 11:30, EST."
10/03/40 Sister's ltr. to EC: "...My sister will either be at
her home, ..., or downtown somewhere. She usually goes to
town on Sat. A.M. around ten or eleven and rests at home in
the early afternoon. She may not go to town this Sat.
morning but I can't tell.
"I may be unduly alarmed about her condition, but it has been
going on for sometime and does not seem to get much, if any
better. This particular phase may have passed by the time
you make the reading, but another one will come sooner or
later and I want to know how to handle it if possible. When
she first had these attacks she would be hysterical and has
asked me to help her and said she couldn't get along without
me, but now she "blesses me out". Do you think she really
wants me out of her home? From what I know of her
disposition I don't think she does. And she has not asked me
to leave, but I wondered if she would be happier with me
away. Her main grievance against me seems to be that she
thinks I am not sympathetic enough with her in the
mistreatment (?) she receives from the rest of the family.
Well, they are sometimes thoughtless, not always tactful and
appreciative and sometimes say hateful things to each other
and I include myself in this. In other words, like most
families we have our squabbles. But unlike a great many
families, there is a very deep love and interest in each
other and in case of trouble she would be right there doing
what she could to help. I can't see where I can change or
help anything by having words or hurting the feelings of any
of them and in trying to smooth things over I seem only to
irritate her more. I really don't see where she has had such
bad treatment. It is just her condition that makes her that
way, I believe, but it is mighty hard on those of us around
her."
10/05/40 See sister's rdg.
319-4 giving advice as to
relationships with Mrs. [
410], indicating that [
410] needs
the advice and counsel and companionship of Miss [
319], that
she should not move out unless conditions become mentally
unbearable. The problems are to be met, but the mental and
physical disturbance will be overcome with following the
advice which has been given. Miss [
319] should act toward
Mrs. [
410] as she, Miss [
319], would desire if conditions
were reversed; not finding fault, not condemning, and not
feeling sorry for herself.
10/08/40 EC's ltr. to sister [
319]: "Guess you will feel a
bit put out, having asked for one thing and gotten another,
but all of us here felt that you should have the suggestions
from your stand-point or view-point. Hope it will help.
"Now if possible get your sister to ask for help from her
point of view. This way we will possibly have the best the
information has to offer.
"Do hope the suggestions are not far-fetched and that they
will help."
9/11/41 Miss [
410]'s wire: "Fell Monday. Please give
reading to determine if hip dislocated. Wire me my expense
by Western Union."
5/17/42 Miss [
410] wrote about a nephew who was living with
her and her sister, Miss [
319], so apparently they did not
break up their home together. [10/56 They were still living
together.]
See subsequent notations under her Life Rdg.
410-2 Reports.



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