10/23/31 Mother [
428]'s letter: "My daughter [
451], has
been doing nicely. She had planned to get married, when
into her life comes another young man, who, intellectually
is, or would be, a better companion, apparently. She asks
your help, if you will kindly give it to her, in the form of
a life rdg., to guide her in the selection of her true mate.
She herself and we all take the matter very seriously.
[
451], above all things, wants to do the right thing.
Her fiance' has failed her, there is no doubt. In his life
rdg. you told him that [see
430-1] no effort was too big
to foster his social life, to work hard and to remake
himself and you even warned him, that unless he would do
this, he would go back. Of course, we realize that this
cannot be done overnight. We have patiently tried to help
him in every possible way, but he has been inactive, even
without misgivings we would continue to be patient, but
[
451], evidently wanting him to be different so badly, very
likely quite unconsciously attracted a man more according to
her ideal. The whole affair has come to her like a
thunderclap out of the blue sky. She was not looking for
another man, do you understand? She was trying TO MAKE HER
IDEAL OUT OF HER FIANCE' [
430]. Furthermore, the older she
is getting, the more serious she is taking marriage. She is
also wondering, whether she should not wait and take neither
one. My own personal opinion has always been, that she might
find a fellow-artist, a man who has something in common with
her soul life, if you want to call it that and one who will
thus help her and to whom she in turn could give her art
life. It is this kind of a life that made Mr. [
322]'s and
mine so ideal, because we always mutually supported each
other. Of course, real mating, means to find one's half
soul, according to my teachings; - that is what it should be,
if it can be done. I am writing you all this, because the
whole affair is so unusual. There are no hard feelings
anywhere. [
451] has worked feverishly and unselfishly to
help towards furnishing her home, she has worked Saturdays
and Sundays, whenever there was an opportunity and now the
same thing happens to her as it did to me, it is like scales
dropping from ones eyes, vision comes of a new life and one
cannot go back. She tries to work with the Divine powers,
strives to do the right thing, has given gladly more than 20%
of her little income to the church and now this happens.
I am writing you all this, so that Mrs. Cayce may know and
understand the situation.
"In regard to her work, [
451] also wants to know whether
she has the potential power to become a big designer and
how best to develop in her line of work.
"I enclose check for $25.--."
11/05/31 Miss [
451] and her mother were present for her Life
Rdg.,
451-2.



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