1/27/39 Mr. [
452]'s ltr. to GD: "You wrote me almost a yr.
ago, and at the end of your ltr. you hoped that the New Year
would be the gateway to attaining my heart's desire. Well,
it has.
"It happened that Mrs. [...] (the wife of the friend I play
tennis with) thought that it would be a good idea if I took
a course in a Dramatic School in N.Y. Just a general course
of personality improvement. She thought that in that way
I would see something new and that I might meet some
interesting people. Oddly enough at that school I met a
young girl who was also just taking a course in
interpretative dancing just to get out and do something.
Anyway we met. She lives way over in northern N.J., so I see
her only about once a wk. She seems to be just the sort of
girl I have been looking for. And she cares for me too. But
I do now, as I have always done, pray that this whole matter
be in God's hands, because I do want a marriage that is made
in heaven. Her name is [...] and she is a very sweet, simple
living, old fashioned girl.
"I met her in the last part of the year (1938), and on New
Year's Eve and Day I learned how much she cared for me.
"Now I hope the same for you, that this year, if not already,
someone may come into your life." Sincerely, [
452]
2/24/39 See sister's rdg.
457-5, Par. 14-A advising that if
necessary precautions are taken there would be no affectation
of blood condition inherited which [
452] could pass on to
his wife or children. [She had written, "[
452] is thinking
of getting married."]
3/05/39 Sister [
457]'s letter:
"She is a fine girl and it would make me so happy if [
452]
would find love, home and peace. He needs it. He has only
discovered what home means since the family is gone and he is
all on his own. He has found that other people pretty well
pursue their own affairs and do not give much thought or time
to a single person who is alone and lonely. One doesn't
notice this as long as one has ones own family to come home
to. Friends often give you more attention than your own
relatives. Thanks again for all your help."
7/30/39 His ltr. to GD: "I guess I was a little too
over-enthusiastic about [...] in my last ltr. She is a very
fine, sweet girl and I am very fond of her, but she does not
appear to feel the same way about me. Anyway, I do not see
her so often now. Perhaps it is just as well. It will take
me two more winters to finish my course in accounting at N.Y.
Univ. I hope that will lead to a better job, and then I'll be
better in the position to support a wife.
"So for the present I am again in the position where I was
when you and I had that long conversation together. Of
course my experiences since then have taught me many things.
One thing is, that I should not think so much of marriage.
I believe that when the right time comes, the right girl
will be there. After all, marriage is not the chief end
of man. It is rather to serve God and man. Marriage is for
companionship and to reproduce the race. But some of us
will have to be satisfied with finding companionship among
many people instead of one person. And that is not an
unfortunate thing, because in that way one can love and
reach more people. So we must leave that to God. In the
meanwhile I will study hard to better myself financially,
and I'll try to live a life of service to others."
8/26/44 Ltr. to GD: "I guess you will be surprised to hear
that I am finally engaged to be married. About a yr. ago I
met a very nice Christian girl at a party. She lives here
in ... A few wks. ago we became engaged and on Nov. 11th
we expect to get married. The Lord has been very good to
us. He provided us with an apt. without our doing anything
about it, and that, at a time when it is very difficult to
find one. The wedding will be a very simple affair... It
will be in a church, [Baptist] where I did most of my
courting. I never realized there are so many things to take
care of when one gets married. It keeps me very busy.
Nevertheless it is a most wonderful experience to be loved
and to love. I hope you will also have that some day...
"I hope some day you will meet my sweet little [...]"
Affectionately, [
452]
12/28/51 Mother [
255]'s ltr.: "[
452] and wife are coming
to us for New Year's. He lives 1 hour's auto trip from here
in [...]"
3/19/55 "[
452] and wife are very active in church affairs,
have a boy of 17 living with them, who was sadly in need of
love due to a broken home."
1/16/56 "[
452] and wife are very active in their church with
young people."