(Q) Give father [
257] specific guidance as to how he can
direct this child.
(A) Study first in self (the father) to show self approved
unto its ideals and NOT to TRADITION! "For of tradition," as
the Lord hath given, "I AM DONE!" But with purposefulness of
knowing and giving the better reaction.
For as the developing mind is reaching that with its studies,
its readings, towards hero-worship - unless self (the father
or the mother) can REMAIN the hero, you fail in meeting the
full needs of the developing mind.
This is done then first in showing self approved unto that
which is the ideal in spirituality, in self!
And let that be rather the guide, ever, in FORMING the
relationships, the associations in the daily life.
For remember, the mind and the body is a growing thing. GROW
with same!
Unless that growth is apparent, then the parent becomes to
the growing mind a "back number," and out of date.
Hence the parents should grow with, be companionable with,
cooperate with, all the surroundings.
To deny the daily activities, the daily instructions in
school as being passe' or forward is to create a barrier
between the child and the parent.
All must be then cooperative.
To deny or to build a barrier between one parent and another
in its correction, then this again builds a barrier. And
they (the children) cannot love two masters. They (the
parents) must be ONE!
Well that the world would learn that given of old, "Know (O
Parents) O Israel, the Lord thy God is ONE!"
And unless the purpose of all those that aid, all those that
guide, all those that direct the developing life of a soul
are ONE, they build destructive forces in its (the soul's)
experience.
Not that problems do not arise in the experience of each; the
father, the child, the mother, the instructor. Yet ever if
these are as ONE, His promises - God's promises - BECOME
effective.
Yet if there is the attempt - as has been indicated - to have
SELF'S way (the egotism, the self-expression), ye defeat the
First Law.
(Q) Should he be forbidden to play with fire, or should that
curiosity be directed - if so, how?
(A) This is an element (Fire), and an elemental, and an
experience in the activity of every individual.
The entity then must learn its lesson. Take in consideration
that as has been given. Forbidding creates a barrier. Then
DIRECTION as to its purposes, as to is benefits, as to is
place in the experience of every soul is necessary. But as
a toy, as a plaything, this then becomes tabu; and should be
handled, should be directed, counseled with.
Forbidding in the life of THIS entity, as in most others,
becomes - WHAT TEMPTATION!
(Q) When should he start music lessons?
(A) In another year, at least - or sooner. In the Spring
the better.
(Q) What instrument should he start with?
(A) The piano.
(Q) Should he go to Sunday School?
(A) The use of same, the environs of Sunday School, the
needs of the spiritual life, should be a part of the
education, a part of the counsel.
If there is then that answering within that seeks for the
more knowledge and the greater associations with such, then
go. But not by force nor by might, that "you HAVE to go."
(Q) The entity is not seeking as yet. Shall we wait until
he desires to go?
(A) Determine rather within self, by that counsel - is it
because of lack of the counsel as respecting same, or the
lack of the answering from within? Then abide by that.
(Q) Any other advice regarding this entity?
(A) These influences kept physically, mentally in the
experience, we will find a well-balanced body, mentally,
physically, spiritually.
We are through with this reading.
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BACKGROUND
See
759-12 on
7/31/36.
REPORTS
5/03/37 See
759-14.



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