(Q) What can I do to make my husband, [
417], realize his
great obligation and responsibility to his child as well as
myself?
(A) These become problems that are dealing with individual
entities, individual developments. That they each have their
own ideals and either conform to same or drift, becomes
apparent.
When the periods come in the experience of each soul that the
associations are unbearable, as to become hindrances to their
keeping their OWN ideal, then to awaken or to attune or to
change, or to alter those associations becomes necessary.
But each should look into their OWN consciousnesses. Each
should answer that which has been given as from old, "Today
is set before thee good and evil, life and death."
These should be then counseled, not in fury, not grudgingly,
not in hate nor in condemnation. For that we condemn in
another WE must meet in our own selves. For God is not
mocked, and whatsoever a soul soweth that it MUST reap.
That our ideals are not of the same is apparent to all; and
while man may oft look upon the outward appearance, God
judgeth from the heart and from the purpose of every act,
every word, every desire.
Then, we would counsel together, as to the obligations, the
duties, the disturbances, the hopes, the disappointments, the
shadows - the brightness that has been should be held rather
than the darkness that may bring even greater fear and doubt.
But in prayerful meditation counsel within self as to the
approach; not stern, not just forgiving without a
purposefulness, but in love, in simplicity, state, give
thine own feelings, thine own desires, and see if they
coordinate or cooperate with the purposes and desires that
may be stated by him.
If these are so far then that they may not be drawn
sufficiently together for a purposeful life, well that
changes be.
But in the heart, in the soul of [
417] there is that which is
seeking and is losing its way. The FEAR is being
overshadowed by a determination to put the trust rather in
material things. Then only in prayer, only in love may there
be brought to the consciousness of the entity that great
love, that forbearance, that patience that is the basis of
this great soul.
For it has suffered, it does suffer, and yet the outward
appearance makes for those activities in which there is
doubted even by those nearest and dearest that there is a
thought even of the morrow, much less of years to come or of
eternity - that in which each soul and body, by contacts of
the day and the hour, is building towards - or building its
place in same.
Then in love, then in patience, then in counselling, but in a
positive manner.
But first look into thine own conscience. Condemn not that
which is thy brother's mote, or that which is in thy
brother's eye, lest there comes that day when ye meet thine
own conscience, thine own self. But in love, in patience,
reason together. For his soul is great in the eyes of his
Maker, for his love and his patience and his labors in the
experiences in the earth are far, far afield from that seen
in the acts and the deeds of today. Yet thou may indeed
hold, thou may indeed at least offer the opportunity and the
way for that awakening - and not from without may it come,
but from within!
(Q) How can I secure a future for my child and myself?
(A) The best, as has been indicated, is in the possible
awakening of or in thy companion the abilities, the goodness,
the nobleness that is indeed there - if it will but be
aroused to those possibilities, those opportunities that are
before him.
These make for the greater security. If these fail, then
trust in Him only - that in the Giver of all good and perfect
gifts.
And in thy daily conversation, in thy daily acts with thy
fellow man, show forth by same where thy trust, thy faith
hath been put. For to claim or to act in one way and then to
think or feel or say unkind things makes ALL null and void.
For if ye would have love, be lovely. If ye would have
friends, be friendly. If ye would have faith, show it. And
as is the LAW, it WILL come back to thee!
This is the greater security for self, for son. For thou
art indeed God's children, and he hath given and does give
His love each day. Then show in thy love, in thy patience,
even in thy longsuffering, the appreciations of that love.
For He does not fail those that trust in Him. For He hath
given from the beginning, "Be my child and I will be thy
God."
(Q) Would changing [
417]'s associations and surroundings
awaken him?
(A) Rather as has been given, it must be an arousing within
that will change the surroundings, the environs, the outlook,
the desires, the hopes.
For it is FEAR of the present AND the future, and the
attempts to produce within the very activities that which
would justify self in things said and done.
(Q) Would a reading for him be advisable?
(A) If he would seek same, if he would listen to same, would
be excellent!
(Q) Would it be advisable for me to go to work now, for
financial remuneration?
(A) Not until at least there has been - not once but again
and again - the attempt to arouse within him that LOVELINESS
that is there.
For this then would only become an excuse, a contention -
UNLESS this is aroused.
(Q) Am I capable enough to apply for a buyer's position?
for the spring season?
(A) Capable, and efficient. But there must be SO MUCH shut
out of the life in doing same, is the body sufficiently
strong to stand the strain of self at times condemning? Is
the body sufficiently strong that it does not in some manners
defeat the very purposes?
For the loveliness of self, then, for the graciousness of thy
trust thou hast had, open HIS heart!
(Q) With the new World's Fair in preparation in Queens,
would there be any opportunity open for [
417]?
(A) These will become rather as of political associations as
we find, and if there are connections and associations made
in this direction, these might be accomplished. But as to
whether that this would not be leading in the same directions
of the selfishness of fear becomes a question.
But these as we find might be through old associations in
these directions be made to be fruitful in the MATERIAL way.
(Q) Would Albert J. Berwin, appraiser, be of help to me in a
business way? If so, how should I approach him?
(A) In the way and manner that there is a perfect
understanding of the needs and of the conditions that
exist, WHEN there is the determining as to just what these
relations or needs are. And as we find, that entity may be
of material help in WHATEVER way or manner help is sought by
the body.
(Q) Regarding my American Tel & Tel stock, should I exchange
this for anything that would be suggested, for [[
758]'s]
future security? or should I just transfer this to his name
and hold it?
(A) American Tel & Tel promises to be the better holdings,
unless there may be considerations in the Pan-American
exchange. But for the future of [
758]'s help, hold, maintain
American Tel & Tel.
(Q) What business suggestion for [
417]?
(A) As we would find, that which would deal with ANY that
has to do with SELLING in an OPEN or larger scale. Rather
than retail, wholesale - or that where the body's
associations are with greater activity than the individual.
Individual activity, but the effect to the masses rather than
to the individual.
(Q) In what lines would be the more successful, or better
fitted for?
(A) Clothing, dresses, or wearing apparel, or coats or suits
- these as we find would be the better.
But the desires on the part of [
417] must be altered somewhat
before these can become or would become permanent activities.
And these may be accomplished only in this awakening, or
within self.
(Q) If these cannot be altered, what should I do?
(A) As has been given, then leave them aside.
(Q) How may [
257] be of assistance to me?
(A) Only as advice or counsel to [
417] AFTER - not before,
for these would make for the wrong approach - AFTER concerted
effort on the part of the body in reasoning and PRAYING with.
(Q) What suggestion could I give my husband, [
417], to
benefit him financially and otherwise, and how should I go
about it?
(A) In the present, be first insistent that he obtain a
reading - that there may be given that to HIM as may help.
Then, live with him to effect that as might be then
accomplished.
We are through for the present.
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BACKGROUND
See
1192-6 on
4/30/36.
REPORTS
12/02/36 Mrs. [
1192] was present with her husband, Mr. [
417],
for his eighth reading - See
417-8, seeking vocational
guidance.
2/05/45 Letter to GC: "Wish I could write as I feel about the
passing of one so dear to all he knew and loved as we loved
him... It's a strange love I had for him, and I can remember
during my visit at the Cayce Hospital how when he was hurt
about conditions at that time it sort of made me sick to see
him unhappy; and I can remember all who knew him felt as I
did... Edgar Cayce will always live in my heart for the
kindness he has shown to me and my boy [
758], and I have
often wished I could have remained at Virginia Beach where we
could have been close to him. My best wishes for health and
courage to carry on his great work."
GD's note: Mrs. [
1192] and Mr. [
417] were very grateful and
loyal friends to Edgar Cayce, but after EC's death in
Jan. '45 we did not hear from them regularly. [
4/15/48 Mrs.
[
1192] ordered a copy of Thomas Sugrue's book, STRANGER IN
THE EARTH.]
1/62 HLC reported that Mr. [
417] and Mrs. [
1192] attended one
of his meetings in Florida and were very friendly and
reminiscent of the "old days", asking that he give their love
to GD, etc. See under
417-8 Reports.



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