6/28/40 Son's letter [who later had a son born for whom they
secured a life reading - Case [
2584]]: "I want to write and
thank you first of all for what you have done to help pull
my mother [
1663] out of the doldrums. I have been very much
interested in her reports of your excellent work and, most of
all, have enjoyed seeing her get a better hold on herself...
Her trouble is, I feel, shared by many, many women of her
class. 'Too much leisure time.'... Her study with you has
done her a world of good, helping her over a critical time.
But that again is introspective and individual. What her
life cries for is ACTION outside of herself... She, of
course, thinks she is tremendously busy!! She thinks she has
and has had for many years much more than she could do. This
is obviously a mental limitation she has imposed to dodge
social activity... She is not using a fraction of her really
very able gifts of mind and personality. This, I believe,
is the cause of her great unrest, her dissatisfaction with
herself, her over-abundance of worry, her feeling of
inferiority... [
1663] isn't putting out her best, and hasn't
been for many, many years. She is full of fears - fears of
ill health, fears of entertaining, fears of really plunging
into the middle of life and giving her splendid talents.
She's done a good job of her home, and her young'uns (even
if this one seems to contradict that in this impertinent
letter!) - BUT 'the young'uns have flew the coop' - the
past is gone and it's time to get her going at something
constructive to occupy happily the next 30 to 40 years of
her life. She has so much to give, that I hate to see her
tearing up herself, and holding back, when I know she might
be so very much happier and do her fine talents justice.
"I am writing you very frankly, feeling that you are the one
person who can help her accomplish this end. I could never
tell her what I have confided in you. I could - but it would
defeat the end I have in mind. She can gain that confidence
only by DOING, GIVING...she needs confidence, not criticism
...there's more in her to give than she has ever dreamed...
"If you feel there is a germ in what I say, recommending to
her some of these outside activities, or anything else you
feel would do the trick, I believe it would remake her...if
you see her problem in somewhat the same light, you can be
the means of bringing it to pass. And I should be ever
grateful to you."
7/01/40 EC wrote an encouraging letter to the son, saying he
would talk to Mrs. [
1663] in that light, as he had already
done and as her Life Reading [
1663-2] had also done.
7/04/40 Letter: "Thanks once more for everything - the
Readings for my youngest son [
2285] and me, and the
inspiration of the group at the Congress... I'll take my
physical check-up to Dr. Tucker tomorrow. I am going to
ask him to write to you. I think I am doing pretty well
considering the fact I was down with bronchial 'flu' twice
last winter and was laid up six weeks with a sprained knee
(from a fall on the ice). All that in addition to my bad
foot."
9/15/42 Mrs. [
1663] had Life Reading for her other grandson,
- [
2814], little brother of [
2584]. See EC's ltrs. & hers
in their files.