(Q) Through what personal relationship in the present may
our lives best fulfill their highest spiritual unfoldment?
(A) As just given, correlating the ideals of each in those
experiences when each indicated the BEST in THEIR experience!
Here we find, as has been given, - in the Persian experience
the purpose for which the entity now [
1981] came into the
land was not of her own choosing, and was rather under false
pretenses. Yet there were opportunities under those choices
as attempted, for the entity to have become as an influence
for the uplifting. But the association with the entity now
known as [
1776] brought those activities in which there were
those questions in self, as well as in the purposes for which
those activities were brought about.
And in the Egyptian experience, the activities of the entity
now know as [
1776] were as a leader from the Atlantean land;
having become entangled in and with the use of the purposes
of the children of the Law of One by or through activities
with the sons of Belial. Yet the entity in the present known
as [
1981], as the companion for children - or the child in
question in Egypt, and the associations in assisting in the
establishing of those activities in the Temple Beautiful
with the return of the Priest - brought into the life of the
entity who was the consort or the companion in that
experience, that which made for the greater development of
this entity, now known as [
1981] through that experience.
They each, then, have that weakness of being able to be
overpowered by the personality of the other.
Then if there is the agreement, if there is the coordination
of ideals and purposes, and making same work, - it can be
made a beautiful companionship! It also can be made to be
the belittling of one or the other. But if the association
or companionship is kept ever as to the higher point for
each, then they will both be the gainer thereby.
(Q) Has our past relationship been such that it can be
worked out best or only in marriage at this time?
(A) Read what we have just given!
(Q) Is there anything I can do now, or will be able to do,
to help him in his experiences with the Navy, or with his
writing?
(A) Either of these, or both, may be a helpful influence.
Don't you see in that given that each may become a helpmeet
to the other; one in a destructive manner and one in a
creative manner? These have proven that the one was the
weaker in one experience, the other was the weaker in the
other experience. One was the weaker when the man chose to
be self-centered, and to carry political or material reasons
rather than the spiritual. While the ideals were of the
spiritual nature, both advanced or developed.
So in this experience, - is the helping of the material
or of the spiritual nature? If the spiritual, go to it
fast! If ONLY for material and self-indulgence, and
self-gratification, back off very quickly!
(Q) Is there another with whom we each could be as happy, or
happier, in marriage, than with each other in the present?
(A) O we might find twenty-five or thirty such, if you chose
to make it so! It is what you make it!
There is an experience to be worked out, if you want to do it
now. If you have to do it sooner or later, you just as well
do it now - if you want to.
(Q) What associations have I had in the past with the
following, what are the present urges and how may they be
used for our mutual development? First, Gilbert Larson?
(A) In the Persian experience, and he didn't add anything to
the beauty of the life! Would he in the present? In the
Palestine experience, the associations were not in helpful
forces. They may be made so, but we do not see them so in
this.
(Q) Arthur Mountrey?
(A) We don't get Arthur Mountrey in direct association with
the entity in a past experience. Acquaintance in the one
just before this, and thus an attraction, but not for good or
bad.
(Q) Bill Cox?
(A) In the experience before this quite close associations,
and these were not bad; though these were not too good. They
might be made good, if the ideals and purposes were set
closer.
(Q) What have been my past associations with [
849], what are
the urges, and how may they be used for our mutual
development?
(A) As indicated in the Egyptian experience there were both
conflicting periods and then a great deal of cooperation
between the two, in bringing instruction and direction to
those various groups through the land. These all tended
towards creative or constructive experience there.
While, in the experience just before this, there was the
acquaintanceship - but not to good purpose.
In the present they may be a helpful force one to another,
assisting each to be a contributing factor to creative
influences in the lives of others. These are the channels
where the greater help or experience might come.
(Q) What can I do toward achieving a closer understanding
with those of my immediate family?
(A) Only on the basis of that we have given as the ideal.
DO have the seal prepared and keep it ever before you. Know
this is not merely a way of life, it is THE way of life. And
in Him, and in keeping those in the immediate family closer
to the instruction as may be had through the closer
coordinating of purposes in the ideal as set forth there,
is the better manner for self.
For, whether the activities of the entity are in the home
(and this IS the highest of ANY activity) or in a life or
experience as making for any activity, it is ever a teaching
life.
For, being among those chosen as a channel through which
there might have come the Life, light and hope of the world,
this in itself is a teaching source or channel. So is thy
life in thy associations with others. Seldom will ye find
an individual like yourself, that others do things merely
because they have seen you do them! You've never realized
this. It's the same way in thine own home, among thine own
friends, - yea, among those even who would question you;
they, themselves, do and say things simply because you have
said it!
Don't forget thy obligations, thy purposes to Him, who is the
way, the truth and the light.
(Q) Have my experiences thus far accomplished anything
toward "tempering the soul for greater service"?
(A) Read just what has been given. Doesn't it indicate
how far you are even ahead of your own self! and yet haven't
stopped to take counsel with thy better self.
(Q) Any advice to be given on how to better accomplish this?
(A) Take counsel with thy better self, and with thy life's
seal as a directing or focal point upon what is the purpose,
and the crossways as indicated by the shading of colors in
same; and don't forget that as represented in each of the
figures in the corner - and most of all the center.
(Q) Is there anything I can do to further my creative
writing?
(A) Think on Him. This may appear very indefinite to some.
It doesn't to the entity, when it takes thought of how the
best thou hast yet accomplished is when ye trusted wholly in
Him and wrote, not knowing scarcely what ye wrote.
(Q) Is my work with the O.P.A. accomplishing anything?
(A) By the fruits ye shall know thy works. These speak for
themselves.
(Q) Any advice concerning betterment of position with
O.P.A.?
(A) Keep in the way. Be sincere. Be consistent, and be
persistent.
We are through for the present.
Three copies to Self
Copy to Ass'n file
REPORTS
GD gave to Miss [
1981] a copy of reading
1173-11, Par. re.
general standard by which individuals should measure their
motives for marriage.
GD's note: Miss [
1981] did NOT marry [
1776].
9/50 Mother [
1857]'s report: "[
1981] got married on
8/21/50
to [...] 38 years old, Consulting Engineer for Air
Conditioning - they live in ..., Pa. - very happy - came
down to visit me on their honeymoon. I'm very pleased with
the marriage."
3/25/52 Letter: "I was looking for my reading the other day
and found a lot of other literature which made me nostalgic
and thoughtful, but couldn't find my original life reading.
Is it possible to get a copy? ...I expect [
1857] told you I
have a darling baby girl. We're all very happy."
12/30/60 GD's note: [
1981] has several children now and is
very happy; a model wife, mother, and leader in her
community. [See subsequent reports under 1981-1.]



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