(Q) Please give me something that will act as a stabilizer
and make me keep driving, even when these urges of letting
down come.
(A) None better than that as we have indicated. KNOW what
you want to do! Then do it; knowing that each answer for
each problem is within self, as in formation of policies -
for thine OWN; not for the considering of others' now, but of
thine OWN, always consider: "If the circumstances were
reversed, what would I like?" This will bring the answer.
For, while self is not so commonplace as to be called a
normal or ordinary individual, yet one with the
qualifications and abilities to weigh all circumstances in
the experiences of others. Do not trust others as far as the
financial part goes, but as for their advice - take it, and
then weigh it with thy own. For, everyone will give advice,
no matter what their position! and usually too freely! Then
hold thine own advice, but when ye speak - as with thy
associates - do so positively but gently; remembering that
the gentle word turneth away anger. And this is not merely a
saying, but it builds hope, it builds confidence; while "This
is this and That is that" doesn't go very far with many
individuals. As has been indicated, and as may be used here,
oft agree with thine adversary quickly, or those who dispute
thee, - but that does not alter that thou knowest - IF thou
knowest! Thus it becomes and behooves thee to have a year or
year and a half of training in meeting the public, and in
determing the policies in associations with the public. And
remember this is only half. For the policies with which an
individual deals with those that supply material, or in
associations with those who manufacture stock, are as much of
an asset as to be able to sell to each individual seeking any
garment.
(Q) Would the special feature of taking care of weddings,
all of the clothes for bridesmaids, the bride, their flowers
and all other details connected with the clothing angle,
prove a worth while feature, - to make my shop outstanding
and well known because of that feature? If so, please give
helpful suggestions.
(A) May within two to three years, but don't start with
this. This may be builded. But don't begin with it.
(Q) Is a good plan of securing my customers to select names
from the city directory and systematically send each of them
a series of letters asking for their patronage? Are there
any other suggestions for securing customers?
(A) This is very good, but rather expensive. The better is
SATISFIED CUSTOMERS!
(Q) Is it advisable to cater to small sized people, probably
sizes 9 to 16, and to carry moderately priced merchandise?
(A) This is very good. VERY good.
(Q) Should any of the following firms for sweaters, dresses,
blouses, skirts, underwear, etc., be discarded? Richmond Dry
Goods, Richmond, Va. Butler Bros., Baltimore, Md.
University Frocks, N.Y.C.
(A) These are all very good, but you'll change oft after thy
associations with the public itself, and others will be
indicated that must be considered rather than JUST these.
(Q) Please give me names or suggest a means by which I may
know the names of the proper firms.
(A) These will come with the practice. Because many of
those that might be named now that would be well may not be
in existence even when there is the actual need for their
activity! or they may be so altered in their policies as to
not be so good to associate self with too directly.
(Q) Would it be wise for me to feature the dress that my
friend Dorothy Howren represents from the N.Y. firm?
(A) This is very good, but this - too - may be changed. As
we find in the present it is alright. But with the
preparation of self, too many other things are to enter in.
Let's do the first things first.
We are through for the present.
Copy to Self
Copy to Ass'n file
BACKGROUND
See
2448-2.
REPORTS
8/26/41 EC's conscious reading of auras at a Tuesday Night
Bible Group meeting included this one for Miss [
2448] - see
under
5746-1 Reports. It is repeated here because the colors
are similar to the ones suggested for her shop.
Your aura might be called a crown entirely, with gold, purple
and pink; because things must measure up materially as well
as spiritually and mentally. It is very beautiful. Gold, of
course, means that you have attained to some understandings
in which you are very sure.
9/05/42 She obtained a Check Life Reading in regard to
advisability of joining the WAACS or WAVES - See
2448-4.



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